Acceptance – A Major Transformation Takes Place

At this level of awareness, a major transformation takes place, with the understanding that one is oneself the source and creator of the experience of one’s life.  Taking such responsibility is distinctive of this degree of evolution, characterized by the capacity to live harmoniously with the forces of life.

All people at levels below 200 tend to be powerless and see themselves as victims, at the mercy of life.  This stems from the belief that the source of one’s happiness or the cause of one’s problems is “out there.” An enormous jump – taking back one’s own power — is completed at this level, with the realization that the source of happiness is within oneself.  At this more evolved stage, nothing so-called “out there” has the capacity to make one happy, and love is not something that is given or taken away by another, but is created from within.

Acceptance is not to be confused with passivity, which is a symptom of apathy.  This form of Acceptance allows engagement in life on life’s own terms, without trying to make it conform to an agenda.  With Acceptance, there is emotional calm and perception is widened as denial is transcended. One now sees things without distortion or misinterpretation; the context of experience is expanded so that one is capable of “seeing the whole picture.”  Acceptance has to do essentially with balance, proportion, and appropriateness.

Power vs Force, Ch. 4, pg. 109