How do we cultivate more love or get more love in our life? We can’t.
What you do is remove the obstacles to love, because love is the essence of that which you are. …War is not the opposite of peace. Peace is the natural condition when falsehood is removed. So lovingness is the automatic condition when the obstructions to it, which are false and fallacious, are removed. So lovingness becomes a way of being; love is not an emotion – It goes from here to there. You can’t lose love. Somebody can’t run off with love.
New! The Highest Level of Enlightenment, Ch. 12, pg. 120